Friday, May 29, 2009

Is any one else scared of ordering things on-line?

I have this Ginormous fear of ordering things on line.

I want/ need a new pair of riding boots. (FYI I ride horses, during the summer at least) I'm going to be doing a 10 hr ride with my aunt I'm July and my old boots have kicked the bucket.
I found a pair that are dirt cheap off this website that I normally order from their catalog. How simple just put in my card info and the boots are here in 10 days. Free shipping!? count me in.
Then I start to think about it. What if someone steals my card information?
Them I'm getting bank statements for mail order brides or something.

I don't know if I'm being over dramatic or if this is serious business. I hear about this stuff all the time! Damn you google! On my Iaccount I have a news page.... bad idea.

So anyways: I'll be ordering the boots. LOL I need them and It's too great of a deal to pass up!

Other than that! one My best friends (Her name is Lady K) found a job today! She's been so stressed with this economy & is about to Graduate I'm so happppy for HER! Good Job Lady K. I knew you could do it.

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

The bad guys lie to get in your bed and the good guys lie to get in your heart. -One Tree Hill

I have a problem.... It's called "IthinkIcanChangeYou"

Have you ever fallen head over heels for a bad boy? You think to yourself. He's good looking, Funny, good lord! Charming. He holds your hand, he calls you baby and he doesn't give a shit what anyone thinks about him. He parties, he's carefree, He is THE man after your own heart.
Going out with him is almost like being on a high, you just can't get enough!
Then one day you have to get up early for work and you say damn I've slept 4 hours in the past two days. what am I doing? when did this happen?
You were running around town getting your kicks with Mr. Right now.
Mr. "I've had 5 beers, 3 shots and when I wasn't thinking clearly had some of your malt beverage darlin"
Does he ring a bell?

Let me fill you on the Bad boy:
A) he will forever be a 21 year old boy
B)when you are 40 he is STILL 21
C)He is overrated.... it was cool at the time. Not now.
D)I'm not saying he sucks move on. I'm saying there is a Mr. Right out there just for YOU!

So FYI pretty pretty princess.... this is not an episode of the OC he is not going to change and bad boys can't keep their shit together long enough to foster the long term.

When life gives you LEMONS:
order a Long Island, that's the only thing that's going to keep you warm when your smooth talking fonz doesn't come home to snuggle tonight.

Now I'm not always rooting for the good guy: Here's a few reason why!

They tend to be people pleaser's. and what this means is they are so busy worrying about what everyone thinks that you are often left in the dust.
- when is there time for little ole you?

They also have a really difficult time getting the initial passion going.
-And we love it when someone can light a fire.

They take forever to tell you they like you, even though you already to know. It took them so long to fumble and bumble through the process that you most likely played with their emotions by seeing the bad boy a time or two. Why? because he NEVER has a girlfriend and is always available, or not available making it even more enticing!

So if you want the Nice boy who is going to be sweet kind and be there for you always!
HOLD in there tiger!!! It'll happen eventually.

It just might take 4 years.

---Lovint he talk? fallow the BLOGG!--

Monday, May 18, 2009

My week so far.....

Ok, So I know everyone hates Mondays... However... I especially have this loathing foreboding ... rain cloud hoovering above me type action as soon as I awake. Is there something my parents forgot to tell me?

Lets take a look into my day.. shall we?

I take my Grandmother to the doctor... no biggie-I love my grams!
(My mom who should be doing this "decided" to stay another day in Columbus call me the evening before and graciously aloud me to take over her responsibilities for the fallowing day.. ohh mother how could I EVER repay you?)
She explains to me that if I take her in early, they will take her when she gets there and it's" in and out!" poof just like that.
I'm in naive, just woke up, jammin up to grams in PJ's mode and I'm like YES! bada boom boda bam in and out here we go!
My grandma has a hard time walking so we move at slow mo. I'm good... were chatting (catching up on the family drama).
and then something a little thing I like to call Chinese water torture happens.
we sit and wait!
and then we wait some more...
then we go back and get in our little holding cell and wait some more.
Mean while I'm supposed to be helping plan my cousins wedding.... which my mother would know had she not called me 15 hours prior to pull the trump card on her 22 years of service in the infantry of mother hood.

thanks for the guilt trip.

So after all is said and done we swing through Wendy's grab some lunch which I have to inhale because my in and out trip to the doc now has me at 1:50. I run home change and arrive @ work. at 2:04pm

oh, I forgot to mention work did I ?? sorry, I was too busy saving the world.

Tuesday was insignificant, I just worked my ass off then went for some Margarita therapy with my best friend. *

So Here I sit, Yes I am blogging at work... thank you! I deserve it.

Through the busiest week of my life and old flame pops up... which we are just friends now two years later and we decide to for dinner. (We will call him Mr. H)

Mr. h says I will call you after work on Monday or Tuesday night. It's Wednesday and guess what no call! SURPRISE SURPRISE! I shouldn't be upset right? were only friends? nope I'm mad because when I choose friends I seldom choose those who blow me off or don't call when they say they will.
I read a book by someone I consider to be the holy mecca of relationship advice AKA how to move on and that's a man by the name of Greg Behrendt. He wrote He's just not that into you and It's called a breakup because It's broken. A wise man that Greg! and here out of the entire book is what changed me for the better:
"Calling when you say you're going to call is the very first brick in the house you are building of love and trust. If he can't lay this one stupid brick down, you ain't never gonna have a house, baby. And it's cold outside."

there you have it folks.... I want the house!
I want the freaking trust tree.... I DO NOT want to sit awake waiting on you to call and guess what... i WONT. I'm not that kinda girl! I don't watch a see what happens. So hey there Mr. H, shape up or ship out!

Maybe next week we'll talk about how I turned into such a bad ass okay?
but for now that's all!
Lovin the Jaguar talk? Fallow my Blog!!!!!!!

Saturday, May 16, 2009


Throughout my entire 22 years, I've learned a thing or two. ONE: I like to write, TWO: I like to read, THREE:FAMILY is forever, FOUR: Live and let go and FIVE: Karma has a sneaky way of coming back to getcha! I have trials and tribulations just like the next person, and through these moments and realizations of living in the ever changing world, I will write about it and take you along. Sometimes I wont always write from personal experience, however If I'm writing.... it affected me, moved me or opened my eyes to something real and relatable. Welcome to Living the life of a Jaguar :) see ya soon.